Anonymous asked “Because of past trauma, I don't think I'll ever be able to love anyone in a romantic way, nor am I able to let them love me. I fear I'll be alone forever but I'm not even sure I'd like that to change.”
As hard as it seems, I believe that time can heal past wounds. So can finding the right person— someone you won’t even know you were looking for. Don’t elect to live a solitary life because of your traumatic past.. If you choose to be alone because you find it preferable to being involved with another, that’s fine.. But please don’t spend your life weighed down by pain and wondering what could have been. It would be such a loss, and I don’t want you to miss out on something beautiful just because the past is ugly. <3



